As I was reflecting on Memorial Day earlier this morning, I thought about how those in the military at one point or another must count their costs and weigh the risks of joining the armed forces before deciding to risk their lives for the sake of their country. They risk their lives for the safety, peace, and freedom of their fellow countrymen. That, to me, is a high calling and reminds me quite soberly that there’s a price to be paid for answering. Eeek! (but so true)
I couldn’t help but recall my journey of starting my virtual assistant business. I remember desiring the freedom to be at home to raise my kids so much. So much so that at one point, I was willing to count the costs and weigh the risks – no job security, no guaranteed paycheck, no health insurance, at least for a while for what I didn’t even know at the time to be a higher calling — motherhood.
I was willing to risk failure; I was determined to ignore the naysayers; I decided to trust that I would be in good health, and I was ready to work hard and learn new skills. I was going to do whatever I needed to do to enjoy the freedom that I longed for so that I could work from home, provide for my family while being present for them as they grew up — I wanted to capture all their milestones on camera. I wanted to be at peace when they were sick, knowing that I would nurse them at home without worrying about asking my boss for permission to be with my sick kids. I wanted to attend their school field trips when they started preschool. I wanted to enjoy all of it. I guess that was the price I had to pay and have to keep paying every day (nothing compared to the sacrifices of the armed forces), but we are all called to different assignments.
So, as we remember and honor the many great military men and women who paid the ultimate price for a great cause, think about your great cause. Is it pursuing? Is it worth risking failure? Is it worth staying the course no matter how hard it gets? Is it worth the sacrifices? Is it worth giving up your comforts? Are you willing to pay the price?
P.S. My sons are 12 and 14 now, so their needs have evolved. To be honest, they don’t even like me going for their school trips anymore. My youngest son says that school is not fun when parents are around! Lol. But they remain my motivation. I’m focusing on their futures, their college education, and leaving a legacy.
How about you, what are you reflecting on today?